Preparing Your Child to Learn a New Language at School

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It’s that time of year again when (at least in the northern hemisphere) kids and parents are getting ready to go back to school.  For some, it is an exciting time when everything is possible, with new horizons and interesting challenges.  For others, the end of the holidays can spell doom and gloom.

A lot of children will find that they have new subjects on their curriculum, with a new language a reality for many kids.

I have been a language teacher for over 20 years, and one thing I have learned is that parents, other adults, and caregivers play a crucial role in preparing young people to learn a new language at school.  Ideally, you would be able to implement these tips long before the new classes start. But it is never too late and they should be followed even after the course has started.

Here are 5 tips to prepare your child to learn a new language at school:

1. Spread positive vibes

Point out to your child anything associated with the target language.  Get maps out and discover the places that speak the new language.  Find art produced by people who come from those countries. Discover the cuisine. Watch films, either dubbed or subtitled, listen to music or watch sports from the language communities.

Find images of famous landmarks and talk about how you could go on holiday there.  Perhaps there will be a chance to study in the country or work there in the future.

If you know people who speak the language, invite them around for a coffee.  There might be cultural events or clubs in your area that you could get involved with.

What you do will depend on the things available to you and the interests that your child already has. Nevertheless, the kids I have taught who know a bit about people who speak the language and are positive about the process invariably start off very well.

2. Avoid negative connotations

If you can’t be positive, you can at least not be negative.  Don’t talk about the hard times you had trying to learn a new language. Your child might take that to mean it is a family trait.

Don’t highlight negative stereotypes or tell derogatory jokes about the people who speak a particular language. This will provide a reason not to take the language seriously.

And don’t belittle the language and make out that another subject is more important. Kids will pick up on this and not bother with the new language.

3. Get involved

Talk to the teacher or the school and find out how the language is going to be presented, and what the kids should be learning.  Ask your kids about the language, not by trying to test them but by asking for advice about how to say certain things.  Praise your kids for what they know instead of focusing on what they don’t know.

4. Be a role model

Can you speak the language your child is going to learn?  If so, show them.  Speak the language to your kids, and let them hear you talk on the phone or listen to a song.  By acting as a role model you will show that it is possible to learn a new language.  Don’t be afraid to talk about some difficulties you encountered and mistakes that you made, because we all face these challenges.  Just be mindful to show how you overcame these challenges or how the mistakes didn’t stop you from learning and improving.

If you don’t speak the language, then enroll in a course and try to learn it yourself.  Your child will take encouragement from seeing you struggle to learn and will sometimes be motivated to be better than you.

5. Be realistic

Your kids have a long time to learn a new language.  Many students will get two classes a week of about 60 minutes each time.  In a class of maybe 20 pupils, this is not going to result in fluent speakers after a year.

Instead, one of my objectives is to get my students to feel good about the language so they can continue to learn outside the classroom and, indeed, after school.  At the age of 18, my students might only be able to pass an exam and survive in a foreign language. However, by the time they are in their 20s and have traveled and met people from the language communities, they are often near fluent.  This won’t happen if they feel they can’t learn a language or harbor negative attitudes toward the whole process of language learning.


How have you helped your child to learn a new language at school? Let us know in the comments!

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Stephen Greene is an English language teacher, teacher trainer and materials developer from the UK living in Brazil. He blogs about language teaching at When he is not teaching people the difference between 'pretend' and 'intend' he also blogs about raising a bilingual family and being an expat dad in Curitiba at Head of the Heard. You can follow Stephen on twitter @hoftheh or like his Facebook page.

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3 thoughts on “Preparing Your Child to Learn a New Language at School”

    1. Thanks a lot! As I’m sure you are aware, studies show that parental involvement is one of the most important aspects for any types of education, not just for languages.

  1. It’s nice how this address parents to remember to be realistic and will take their child time to learn a language. Pressure and school for children don’t mix well. I would imagine children who enjoy what their learning without being pressured will do much better in the long run.

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