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Whenever we travel as a family, people often give us a perplexed look as they stare at both of our children and then back at us. “What is your ethnicity?”, is the usual question. My children are not only part-Arab, but Hawaiian, Filipino and Puerto Rican, making for one interesting mixed ethnicity.
Being born and raised in Hawaii, I have noticed that the majority of the children of those born here are all mixed too. It would be rare to find a pure Hawaiian or pure anything for that matter. You see, Hawaii’s history of welcoming immigrants from China, Japan, Philippines and Korea spans way back to the 1800’s, when fruit and sugar plantations were big business which generated a rapid population growth in the islands.
In 1853, indigenous Hawaiians made up 97% of the islands’ population. However, by the year 1923, their numbers had dwindled to 16%, and the largest percentage of Hawaii’s population was Japanese.
My children, like many others growing up in Hawaii are all “HAPA”, which is a term used to describe a person of mixed ethnic heritage or that of part Asian or Pacific Islander descent. A common question amongst parents would be, “What’s your child’s ethnicity”?
“She’s Hawaiian, Filipino, Japanese, Portuguese, Irish, English, Scottish”, would be a likely reply.
This cocktail mix of ethnicity heavily influenced Hawaii’s local food scene, placing our islands on the map and introducing Pan-Pacific Asian cuisine around the world. The mixed-plate lunch, for example, is the epitome of how people in Hawaii lived and worked together. This plate lunch, served at practically every drive-in on the island was the most popular dish growing up. If you couldn’t decide what cuisine to eat (for example; Hawaiian) you could chose a mixture of three items (Laulau: Hawaiian/ Kalbi: Korean/ Teriyaki Chicken: Japanese) all with two scoops of rice and macaroni salad on the side. I mean, what island could you go to and eat several different cuisines on one dish?
I, just like my mother, remind our children daily to be “proud” of where they were born. Hawaii is a melting pot and growing up here is so very different from being raised in the mainland USA. As more and more Asian-Pacific Islanders leave their homes to travel abroad and to seek out new opportunities (just like their ancestors), the more likely you’ll meet children which exotic ethnicities.
There’s a very famous song in Hawaii called Mr. San Cho Lee that pretty much sums up the odd and clearly diverse relationships we have with each other in Hawaii. I heard it on the radio recently while guests were visiting us from out of town; “Oh, that song is so racist”, they said but to me, it was a honest representation of growing up in Hawaii. It is how we interact with each other on a day to day basis.
It’s because of this that our family embraces our mixed ethnicity: because the blood that runs through us has a history of perseverance from our ancestors who courageously reached for their hopes and dreams in a new land.
Let this month be a reminder as we celebrate the important impact that the Asian American Pacific Islander community has made on our Nation’s progress.
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Kerry Jordan says
May 2, 2016 at 1:24 amThank you for sharing! We are proud of our mixed ethnicity, too! Chinese, British, Irish, Italian, German. Thank you also for hosting the giveaway.
Wendy Awai Dakroub says
May 8, 2016 at 2:32 amIt’s wonderful to belong to so many ethnicities and learn about all the cultures, especially through food! 🙂
Carolyn M Wilhelm says
May 11, 2016 at 4:55 pmThis is a lovely post. I like your positive attitude and explanations. People do wonder about such things and it is nice to be honest in a proactive manner. Thanks so much. My daughter is adopted from Korea and we have been through a few stares, also. Thanks!
Anjelica says
May 17, 2016 at 7:20 pmI love this post and the open discussion about what it’s like to have children of mixed races. My children are biracial and live in a third culture (Chamorro). It’s so fascinating to see what they relate to. I can’t imagine what their perspective will be on race when they are older. Thank you for sharing.